Posted: 18 Apr 2014 04:00 AM PDT Simon Peter asked him, “Lord, where are you going?” Jesus replied, “Where I am going, you cannot follow now, but you will follow later.” Peter asked, “Lord, why can’t I follow you now? I will lay down my life for you.” Then Jesus answered, “Will you really lay down your life for me? The propelling force behind Peter’s denial wasn’t his lack of faith. Otherwise he wouldn’t have made the claims he did. It was his overestimation of his faith. He believed he was ready to die for Jesus. But he wasn’t, and Jesus knew it. So Jesus said the unthinkable: you can’t follow me. That doesn’t sound like Jesus. After all, this is the Jesus who had told Peter to leave his family, profession, and home to follow Him. Now Jesus is telling Peter he can’t follow Him. Sounds schizophrenic. But it wasn’t. Jesus knew exactly what He was doing because He knew the exact measure of Peter’s faith. Peter had initially followed Jesus. Peter wasn’t ready to follow Jesus everywhere. Not at that moment. And here’s the truth: Jesus isn’t expecting you to. While we definitely often overestimate our own faith, I think we underestimate the grace and patience of Jesus for our lack of faith even more. Jesus expects you to exercise the faith that you have, not the faith that you still have to develop. There are places in your life where your faith is still lacking. There are moments where you still struggle. The question for you in those places and in those moments is the same as it was for Peter: will you really lay down your life for Jesus? And the answer is no. That’s what He was leaving to do when He told Peter he couldn’t follow Him. Practice the measure of faith that you have. Follow Jesus where you can. |
Friday, April 18, 2014
"You Can’t Follow Jesus
Thursday, April 3, 2014
God's Will
Matthew 6:21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.
Stay Close To God,
Tiffany ❤️
Sunday, March 30, 2014
Highly Worthy
You deserve the very best. And you deserve the experience of creating it in your life.
Those who tell you that you’re undeserving are wrong. Those who tell you that you can have something for nothing are just as wrong.
Yes, on this very day you are worthy of the best life you can imagine. And on this very day, you have the opportunity, and the responsibility, to bring that life into being.
What a waste it would be to live at less than your highest level. What a shame it would be to squander even one day of your unique, highly worthy life.
What you have is amazing and filled with great promise. So put in some effort that’s fully worthy of that great promise.
You deserve a life that’s rich and full, and you deserve to be the one who makes it happen. So get up, get busy, get going, and discover how truly deserving you are.
— Ralph Marston
Monday, March 17, 2014
Be truly inspired
Friday, March 14, 2014
Reminder
Just a thought to encourage you this week coming from Isaiah 45:19 (NLT) "I publicly proclaim bold promises. I do not whisper obscurities in some dark corner. I would not have told (my people) to seek Me if I could not be found."
God is good. He has incredible plans for your life. Sometimes, that can be hard to believe when we look at what's unfolding around us in life... KNOW THIS: the things He's been whispering in your spirit aren't just you or your imagination. It's the voice of a true God who is faithful to His word. He is good in His gifts to us, and does what He says He's going to do.
Be encouraged this week. You've got this!
Thursday, March 13, 2014
Today's Truth
He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young. (Isaiah 40:11, NIV)
Friend to Friend
As a little girl, I really did have a little lamb whose fleece was white as snow. I can remember the day my mother showed me the lamb and explained that she did not have a bottle with which to feed the stray lamb. I did. I agreed to let the lamb have my bottle if I could have the lamb. I have been fascinated by the unique relationship between sheep and their shepherd ever since.
Shepherds live with their sheep, finding places for them to eat and drink, providing shelter from the storms and protection from the heat. Sheep must eat the right amount of the right kinds of grass at the right times…or they will die. If the sheep eat too little one day and too much the next day, some of the bacteria that live in the stomach of the sheep will reproduce abnormal levels, creating toxins that cause sudden death. This problem was even more complicated for the shepherds of the Bible.
The type of shepherding referred to in the Bible is not the farming of fenced pasturelands, but nomadic grazing. The shepherd must carefully plan the path and lead the way so that the sheep have neither too little nor too much grazing and are able to get to the water hole on time. Pastures are often lost to extreme heat that means the shepherd has to scour the countryside in search of green grass. Several flocks of sheep are gathered together at night in a sheltered place so that shepherds can share the watches of the night, protecting the sheep from wild animals and thieves. Good shepherds are always willing to risk their lives to save their flocks from any harm, any enemy and even from themselves.
Sheep are dumb, can never be left alone and often stray, requiring the shepherd to find and rescue them. A shepherd never pushes his sheep but rather leads his sheep, going before them, making sure they are not walking into danger. The needs of sheep, compared to the needs of other animals, are greater because of their instinct to be afraid and when faced with a fearful situation, to run. Without a shepherd to care for the sheep, they will not last long.
Personally, I definitely fit the profile of a sheep. I can’t count the number of times I have stubbornly stuck to my plan, foolishly thinking that it was better than His plan, only to end up in some pit somewhere, calling for help. Psalm 40:1-3 has become my life maxim – with one exception. I rarely wait patiently! Remember, I am a sheep!
Psalm 40:1-3 “I waited patiently for the LORD; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear and put their trust in the LORD” (NIV).
I sometimes allow fear to drive me to a place where I am trapped by doubts and darkness…until He rescues me. I try to satisfy my hunger by eating the wrong things found in the wrong places at the wrong times. The result is always the same; my soul remains ravenous for what is good while stuffing my heart and mind with what is bad.
Like every sheep, I don’t like to be pushed. Good shepherds do not push, no matter how great the temptation. A good shepherd stands in front of his sheep, gently calling their names, leading them to a place where he has already been, positioning himself between danger and his sheep. When I am tired and ready to give up, I tend to withdraw from the other sheep and even from my Shepherd. Many of us have somehow bought into the lie that they can make it on their own or that the rules, the commandments of
God, do not necessarily apply to them…just those other sheep. The longer I serve God, the more I realize just how much we need each other and how much we need Him. When will I learn that I cannot do life on my own – as a sheep or as a shepherd?
A good shepherd is willing to lay down his life for his sheep, just as Jesus Christ laid down His life for you and for me. I am so glad He was willing to lay down His life for every single sheep – the cute, fluffy ones as well as the dirty, broken lambs like me. Maybe it is time for us all to stop, listen for His voice, seek His plan and remember that we are indeed needy sheep who are called to love and lead other needy sheep to the Good Shepherd, Jesus Christ.
Let’s Pray
Lord, I am so thankful that You are my Shepherd and that no matter how deep the valley or dark the pit, You have gone before me and made a way. Help me to understand that Your ways are higher than mine. Forgive me when I complain that the way You have made for me is harder than I want it to be. I
surrender my life to you, Lord, my God and my Shepherd.
In Jesus’ name,
Amen.
Now it’s Your Turn
Here is a challenge for every Girlfriend in God. Read Psalm 23 once a day for one month. Record it in your journal. Let every word soak into your heart, mind and soul. When fear comes, turn to God. When you are in need, trust the Shepherd. When confusion surrounds you, trust God to make the crooked paths straight. Rejoice daily in the fact that you are His lamb and He is your Shepherd.
More from the Girlfriends
I truly believe that most of our stress in life is rooted in our refusal to trust God as our Shepherd. Escaping the Stress Trap is not just a book I wrote. It is based on Psalm 23 and is my story of learning to understand that I am His sheep and He is my Shepherd. Check it out!
Need help learning how to study the Bible? Check out Mary’s weekly online Bible study, Light for the Journey. The current topic is How to Tame Your Tongue. And be sure to connect with Mary on Facebook or through email
Tuesday, March 11, 2014
The Right Order of Love
Encouragment
- Here are some things you might want to try.
- Tell someone they are a blessing to you. Be specific.
- Tell someone you are praying for them (and make sure to do so).
- Send flowers to perk up someones day.
- Write out a card to say hello. (be sure to mail it or hand deliver it)
- Give a compliment to a different person every day for a week.
- Share a special verse either by word of mouth or write it in a card or note.
- Send someone a candy note. (See the Candy Notes Ideas)
- Praise someone out-loud for something they've accomplished.
- Go out of your way to talk to someone and just "listen" to what's going on in their lives. Make the conversation about them and not you.
- Share your enthusiasm about something God's done for you. (Be specific)
- Share how the women's ministry in your church is a blessing to you.
- Invite someone out or over to lunch or dinner.
- Have a coffee or a soft drink with someone you don't normally fellowship with.
- Take someone out for ice-cream just because.
- Bake someone cookies, a pie, or cake and drop it off to them.
- Offer to babysit for a mother who needs a break.
- Pass on a book that you've already read that's been a blessing or that you just thoroughly enjoyed.
- Pray for someone every day at least 3 times a day for a week. It will probably do you just as much good as the one you are praying for.
- Invite someone over for tea.
- Invite a couple ladies over to watch a movie together.
- Offer to take dinner to a family that you know is in need or could use the help.
- Give a sister in the Lord a hug.
Copyright ©2001-2013 Julia Bettencourt
Live your life
Thursday, February 27, 2014
Monday, February 24, 2014
Sunday, February 23, 2014
Women's Release March 2014
Tuesday, February 4, 2014
Pinky Promise Movement
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMU3ehPZpXQ
Join the Movement: http://www.pinkypromisemovement.com/
DEAL Breakers Before The Ring
I just did a YouTube video on "Deal-breakers before the Ring." You may be married & happy-- but check it out & if it's on your heart-- share it with a single friend. I think it's so important to remind women not to settle prior to the ring. I know life gets hard, you may be tired of being single or lonely but a ring will only amplify your inward struggles. Let's call what some of these relationships are: self-led, not God-led.
So, check out the video:
Heather Lindsey
Visit Pinky Promise at: http://www.pinkypromisemovement.com/?xg_source=msg_mes_network
No need for frustration
So once you’re aware of the frustrating situation, make the choice to find a more useful, effective response. Step back from the desire for instant drama, and work on creating some long-term positive results.
Read more at http://greatday.com/#87Qfcp0Ao6TFX7LG.99
Serinity Prayer
That ministered to me.... I’m so thankful... that even as I type I can feel my healing... I believe that it is healthy and necessary to speak against what you are struggling with... to acknowledge that "yes, I may be facing this issue today, but MY GOD is GREATER!!" Just because it is like this today, tomorrow WON’T BE LIKE THIS!! I CAN HAVE WHAT GOD HAS PROMISED ME, I ALEADY WON!! HALLELUJAH!!!
So if you were like me and had some negative thinking this morning, pray this prayer and be changed! Believe that you healing lives within the heart of your prayers..
God, grant me the Serenity
To accept the things I cannot change…
Courage to change the things I can,
And Wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as the pathway to peace.
Taking, as He did, this sinful world as it is,
Not as I would have it.
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His will.
That I may be reasonably happy in this life,
And supremely happy with Him forever in the next.
Amen.
Thursday, January 30, 2014
Act of Kindness
Friday, January 24, 2014
Venting/Rant End of January 2014
I am in school and to be honest I have NOT been putting my best foot forward. I have been doing my tests, going to class, etc. but I have not really been putting in the necessary time to be as successful in school as I could be. I think I treated school like another chore, and not really enjoying it, just doing it because I said I would. Gotta do better…
My hair is falling OUT! What the What.... So after you have a baby if you are fortunate enough to not have postpartum shedding... GOD BLESS YOU! WOO! However, if you are like the rest of us and your hair sheds like crazy then... YEA... GOD BLESS US TOO! LOL I know it is a hormonal thing and I know this too shall pass but still... it is to say the least... unnerving. But GOD, so God reminded me in the mist of me washing my hair one day that, that's what my relationship looks like with Him, falling out piece by piece. Just as I take time out each week to do my hair, I need to daily take care of my relationship with HIM as well!
Let's talk about this Janelle Mona'e CD... it is awesomesauce in my ears... very well thought out music... I'm enjoying every track..take a listen..
What else...I have lost weight and I feel great! However, the Holy Spirit spoke to me and said I need to eat better food, because yea... she goes in on the Oreos... I just think they taste so amazing... DONT JUDGE ME! We all have problems..I'm just the first to admit it.. LOL (On My Kanye)
Can Christians listen to "worldly music" just like everything else, anything that is consumed too much can be bad for you... #jussaying #balanceiskey...
What did I learn through all this:
I really love life...and I wanna keep on living... I am thankful for my life... God is Great...
Making Adjustments
Thursday, January 23, 2014
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
Women's Release Day Change
Book of The Month:February 2014
Listen to Wisdom
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Monday, January 13, 2014
Too much to do..
Too much to do
Are you overwhelmed by all the things you need to do? Then stop needing to do all of them and start actually doing one of them.The best response to being overwhelmed is not to impress yourself or others with how overwhelmed you feel. The best response is disciplined, focused action.
Don’t be stopped, or even slowed down, by the fact that you can’t imagine getting it all done. Let go of your thoughts about what’s still left to do, and give all your attention to what you are doing, right here and now.
In fact, it’s a good thing you have so much to do. So gratefully accept that blessing and get going on the first task, and then the next, and the next.
You have a continuing stream of opportunities to make a difference. Keep yourself busy transforming those opportunities, one by one, into real value.
When there’s much that must be done, pick the most important thing and get busy. Get on the path to achievement, and keep going.
— Ralph Marston
Read more at http://greatday.com/#xi3i8m6lO6zsp5Mz.99
Wednesday, January 8, 2014
I Will Fight
This Christian life is not easy.
I have an Enemy that is real.
I face battles that feel overwhelming.
There are times when I’m tired and I want to give up.
I will fight.
I Will Fight is an audio track recorded by Pastor Steven Furtick to help you get focused and to prepare you for the challenges ahead. Download the free track and build it into your daily rhythm. Whether you’re getting ready to work out, to suit up for your next game, or you’re in the car in need of a quick lift, you have an unstoppable God whose strength and power can help you push through and continue the fight – no matter what you’re facing.
Click here to download the FREE MP3.
Monday, January 6, 2014
The Time It Will Take
The time it will take
You cannot turn the corner until you get to it. In order to create a breakthrough, you must lay the groundwork for it.Real value is built with time, effort and commitment. Don’t cheat yourself out of that value by demanding instant results.
When you’re moving in a positive direction, enjoy the ride and give it the time it takes. Even though the fulfillment is not yet complete, you can already begin to experience it.
Don’t be afraid of the time it will take to make real progress. Be thankful for the opportunity to make an increasingly valuable difference as time goes on.
There is great joy to be found in meaningful effort. The longer and more committed the effort is, the more joy you are able to experience.
Cheerfully give yourself and your work the time it takes. Choose a worthy destination, and treasure every step of the journey.
— Ralph Marston
Read more at http://greatday.com/#Q6EhqysXh6R1AvBx.99
The time it will take
You cannot turn the corner until you get to it. In order to create a breakthrough, you must lay the groundwork for it.Real value is built with time, effort and commitment. Don’t cheat yourself out of that value by demanding instant results.
When you’re moving in a positive direction, enjoy the ride and give it the time it takes. Even though the fulfillment is not yet complete, you can already begin to experience it.
Don’t be afraid of the time it will take to make real progress. Be thankful for the opportunity to make an increasingly valuable difference as time goes on.
There is great joy to be found in meaningful effort. The longer and more committed the effort is, the more joy you are able to experience.
Cheerfully give yourself and your work the time it takes. Choose a worthy destination, and treasure every step of the journey.
— Ralph Marston
Read more at http://greatday.com/#Q6EhqysXh6R1AvBx.99
The time it will take
You cannot turn the corner until you get to it. In order to create a breakthrough, you must lay the groundwork for it.Real value is built with time, effort and commitment. Don’t cheat yourself out of that value by demanding instant results.
When you’re moving in a positive direction, enjoy the ride and give it the time it takes. Even though the fulfillment is not yet complete, you can already begin to experience it.
Don’t be afraid of the time it will take to make real progress. Be thankful for the opportunity to make an increasingly valuable difference as time goes on.
There is great joy to be found in meaningful effort. The longer and more committed the effort is, the more joy you are able to experience.
Cheerfully give yourself and your work the time it takes. Choose a worthy destination, and treasure every step of the journey.
— Ralph Marston
Read more at http://greatday.com/#Q6EhqysXh6R1AvBx.99
Thursday, January 2, 2014
Declaration Journal
- My first few pages are the lessons that I learned in 2013.
- The next few pages are my goals for 2014. The goal pages consist of answering the following questions:
- Where am I currently?
- What is the approach to get where I need to be in Christ?
- Who's going to hold me accountable?
- What is my faith goal?
- How will I grow in my management and stewardship of resources?
- How will I grow in my preparation for my future career, education, and learning personal development?
- How will I develop and measure my relationships? Who will I associate with?
- How will I develop and impact my family relationships?
- After these questions are answered, begin by adding today's date and your declaration. Add a new declaration daily.
- Designate a day and time once a week (the same day every week) to take turns reading your declarations with your prayer partner. After you all read them, each of you should conclude by praying over each other's declarations. Take the declarations seriously! Don't just write things because they sound good, make it personal to your life. The goals portion of your journal should be a great help in creating your declarations.
- Each week you read your declaration, you should begin with the very first declaration and end with the last declaration with whatever week you are on. As time progresses, your conversations with your prayer partner will get longer because there will be so many declarations to read but it's so worth it!
- Pick times to revisit your goals throughout the year and revamp them if needed.